What To Do When Homesickness Hits at University

For many of us, going to university is our first time being away from family and friends for an extended period. It can cause our hearts to fill with wistfulness and desolation. Adjusting to a new life can be difficult, despite the pressure to embrace our new chapter at university.

As social anxiety looms over our heads this autumn, we must remind ourselves that we are all on the same boat, experiencing the same feelings of longing for home. We all miss the comfort of our familiar lives, so sitting in our rooms may seem more favourable than going out into the intimidating unknown.

There are many creative and practical ways to navigate the emotional rollercoaster that is homesickness. By incorporating these tricks into your daily routine, you’ll feel more at ease and gradually start to embrace this new and exciting chapter in your lives:

  1. Simple tasks that drag us out of our rooms are important in keeping us busy. Going for a grocery shop with your flatmates, heading to the gym or even attending your lectures can help get your mind off homesickness. These distractions occupy your mind and provide a break from the overwhelming feeling of missing home.
  1. Keep track of LUU wellbeing events such as the weekly wellbeing and global cafes. Fostering a sense of community and belonging that combats loneliness and isolation. This can help you find a space to get to know more people and perhaps even get the support you didn’t know you needed!
  1. LUU hosts many clubs and societies; find something that excites you and give it a go! Your time at university is all about finding yourself and experiencing new things. 
  1. Although it is okay to miss home, you should not cling to what you miss but rather embrace the opportunity you have been given at university. Mindful practices like gratitude journaling are a perfect example of that; start a journal to reflect and note things that you’re grateful for in your new environment. It can help shift your focus to the positive aspects of your experience at university.
  1. When packing for university, grab some trinkets that remind you of your loved ones, such as pictures and stuffed teddies. This will help make your space more comforting and familiar. You can even create a Homesickness Survival Kit.
  1. Fill a box with items that bring you comfort and relaxation. Something like your favourite tea, a cosy blanket, or a good book will do the trick. Whenever you feel down, you can reach for it to lift your spirits.
  1. Create a schedule that excites you. You can look up new recipes and try them out every day. Similarly, you can arrange coffee dates with your coursemates between classes. Or even set up virtual hangouts with family and friends through video calls. Having a set time to connect with loved ones can give you something to look forward to and make it through the hard times.
  1. It is important to look after yourself, your mental well-being is just as important as your physical health. Getting enough sleep, eating well and exercising are a great way to boost your mental health. Having a routine is essential in reducing your anxiety and creates a sense of comfort and familiarity in your new life.
  1. Stick it out! Students who go home every weekend usually find that it takes longer to fit in, so make sure to stay around the first few weeks.

It is okay to feel homesick, whether you’re a first-year or coming back from an eventful summer break. What’s most important is that you make sure to prioritise yourself and listen to what your body and emotions are telling you. These proactive approaches not only help you cope with homesickness but also encourage personal growth and adaptation to your new life.

Read more:

https://engage.luu.org.uk/guides/article/MTH/i-feel-homesick

https://www.timeshighereducation.com/student/advice/how-deal-homesickness-university

Live At Leeds in the Park 2024 – A buffet of talent to kick off festival season 

Written & Edited by Erin Clark

As the first £8 pints were reluctantly purchased and the first portaloos christened, the 2024 festival season was ushered in this past weekend at Temple Newsam. The floodgates opened and the people poured in, wristbands were fastened uncomfortably tightly around wrists, and most of those in attendance were tipsy before even entering the event space – ahh, the comfort, grace and decorum of the great British festival. This year’s edition of the proud jewel in the crown of Leeds’ music events, Live At Leeds in the Park, boasted an impressive roster of performers across a jam-packed day of sets.  

The frenzied scramble of opportunity ensued – Do we grab a pint? Some food? Do we get some merch? Or do we run in the direction of the nearest music? We chose the latter and made our way to the ‘DORK HYPE stage!’ wherein we found the winner of LAL’s ‘apply to play’ scheme – Velkro. For a young star of a band formed a mere 9 months ago, an achievement as mammoth as performing at LAL should be well and truly celebrated. The band’s numerous performances across the country, from Brixton to York, and Manchester to Hull, goes a significant way in proving just how formidable this five-piece is. The effort freely combined qualities reminiscent of Pixies, The Cure and The Cranberries into their distinctly moody sound, entertaining a tent which was overflowing with eager spectators. It is a shame that their billing position in the line-up meant that they were not treated to the biggest audience they could’ve possibly performed to, but Velkro were truly a highlight of a dazzling lineup. 

Aside from the given task of entertaining the crowd, the undoubtable secondary task of the lower-billing artists is in the setting of an energetic standard for the rest of the day’s proceedings – a secondary task that I’m not sure Scottish-indie-effort Vistas accomplished. As the first act of the day to grace the main Cockpit stage, the standard is undoubtedly high, and as the droves of festival-goers herded through the gates and in- front of the main stage, a disappointing amount were convinced to stay and watch Vistas performance. For a crowd that wanted to be brought on side, to be energised, and to ultimately listen to engaging music – Vistas’ nasal vocals and simple guitar stings simply didn’t do in this case.  

I don’t know if the band simply fell victim to an unfortunate billing spot, or it was simply the fact that the music itself was reminiscent of an indie era long past (and not the good kind – the 2016-shallow-but-shiny-copied-guitar-riff-kind) – but Vistas ultimately provided a performance which was well and truly mild. There were definitely those who were visibly enjoying the performance, but in all honestly, these individuals seemed few and far between. But fear not disheartened festival-goer, plenty more acts are in store. 

Where Vistas failed to capture attendee attention and boost crowd energy, I believe Anthony Szmierek succeeded greatly. Szmierek’s high-octane indie-hip-hop tunes, and charismatic stage presence which sounded out across the event space effectively drowned out other acts with a much-needed injection of effervescence (that was noticeably lacking until this point). Under CLASH’s navy big top, the singer remarked that he had not long woken up before his 1:20pm set, yet for someone who may have still been rubbing the sleep out of his eyes, he still managed to deliver a thoroughly energetic set for the crowds flocking from the Cockpit stage towards the audible cheers. The great British all-day festival demographic was summed up in the attendees surrounding me – a dad in a suit jacket, shorts and a fedora embarrassing his young children by parading around the area; a group of 16-year-olds with glittered faces, donning bucket hats and North Face shoulder bags; and a woman with a ‘Karen’ haircut waving a full wine bottle in the air. Leeds, how I love you. Szmierek music, which I hadn’t listened to prior to this performance, balanced indie-influenced stream-of-consciousness lyricism with a definitive dance hip-hop undercurrent which served to unite the diverse audience which had gathered – which is certainly no mean feat. 

In another display of light-hearted humour, pointing to a small girl on her father’s shoulders, Szmierek details how he had censored himself in the previous song after noticing her presence – changing from the work ‘fuck’ to ‘damn’. The people’s hero. Living up to his recently granted moniker as one of Radio 6’s ‘Artists of the Year,’ Anthony Szmierek was truly a treat to watch. As an artist who is amidst a definite rise, Szmierek’s performance assured all in attendance that this rise is founded and will only go on to continue. 

As the temperature waned, and the slow realisation that the summer clothes we had donned may have been a display of wishful thinking began to set in, we headed to the DIY stage to seek solace in the warmth conjured by Cosmo Pyke. Cosmo Pyke’s set was as soul-warming as it was refreshing, bringing with it an invigorating divergence in genre from an otherwise indie-pop heavy line-up. As a fan of Pyke from the beginning of his career, it was a true gift to get the chance to finally witness his artistry live. 

My solidly favourite act of the day was Leicester-born musician Billy Nomates. Nomates’ was one of, if not the only, solo performer to take to the stage, which may seem an unthinkable and exceedingly difficult task – yet as she marched and stomped in time with her ferocious lyricism under the navy canopy of the Clash Big Top, the singer quickly managed to prove herself as a truly formidable artist. Barefoot and clad in a black two-piece suit with metallic silver fringe, the musician came to the festival armed with all the energy of a woman scorned – reflective of her album ‘CACTI,’ Nomates presented a performance which was equally parts prickly as it was sincere. The whole set that was delivered was a treat to witness, but standout highlights from this set included: ‘black curtains in the bag,’ ‘same gun’ and set-closer ‘spite’. If you haven’t had the privilege of listening to Nomates’ music before, I would urge you to devote some time to an exploration of her musical catalogue.  

Showcasing her newest album, ‘Black Rainbows’, Leeds-native Corinne Bailey Rae was next to grace the main Cockpit stage. The first sentiment that the singer-songwriter expressed was her heartfelt gratitude at being able to perform to such an immense crowd in her hometown, which was met with significant reciprocal love from the pint-wielding masses.  I am a fan of the ambitious nature of the album, and the seeming divergence it represents for Bailey Rae’s musical career – yet a combination of the set being almost twenty minutes late, and several technical difficulties meaning that no sound could be heard by the audience, unfortunately saw the crowd dispersing to their chosen elective from the other choices of acts and stages. The wings of energy of the album, and Bailey Rae herself, were effectively clipped by purely circumstantial events of the day and ultimately, the crowd was not on side with the set. 

Next to the stage of the CLASH Big Top was a man who I am convinced had to have been a town crier in another life, Baxter Dury. Combining a sporadic bout of poses with a brash and forceful ranting vocal styling, Dury’s set walked the line between an agitated rally, and a critically reflective existential spiral. The self-described ‘posh and unwashed budget nepo baby’ entertained the masses gathered underneath the navy canopy by providing surface-level danceable grooves but dare to look (or listen) closer and a lyricism is revealed that is both consistently witty and self-critical. Dury shares many of the same motivations as IDLES in my view – both posh, and both attempt to make effective satirical music – yet Dury succeeds in doing so, where IDLES do not. By actively maintaining an intellectual level-ground with listeners, as opposed to infantilising and insulting listener intelligence as IDLES do, Baxter Dury’s music functions as a thoroughly self-aware, inherently scathing and fully realised stream of poetry that is as beneficial for the artist as it is to the audience member. 

Image Credit: Jacob Flannery / @jacob_flannery_

Next to grace the Cockpit stage, was real-life Spice Girl – Melanie C, in archetypal cross tattoo and sports bra get-up. Though her solo music received significant positive reception from the gathered crowd, there was an undeniable nostalgia-fuelled craving for some of her older tunes. As the beginning notes of ‘Spice Up Your Life’ sounded out, every woman above a certain age either squealed where they were stood or leaped up from their spots on the grassy banks to partake in the 90’s-nostalgia-fest. A seasoned veteran performer, Mel C then sprang into an energetic sprint of several Spice Girls’ chart toppers, before assuring the crowd that ‘it was okay that she was their second favourite Spice Girl,’ obviously only narrowly dethroned by Leeds-native Mel B. 

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From Spice Girls to Sea Girls – as the indie four-piece took to the stage of the Cockpit, the crowd that now gathered was significantly younger and spritelier than those who had congregated for the previous act. Evidently, from observing those around me, there was a palpable love for the band amongst the festival’s Gen Z attendees – but Sea Girls were definitely not for me as it felt like starter-indie-pop music with simple lyricism and repetitive fills. Listening to this type of music was undoubtedly a phase that I went through as a fresh-faced 16-year-old, but I can now say that I am firmly out of this phase at this point. 

Following Sea Girls at the Cockpit stage was Declan Mckenna – which from crowd reception alone seemed to be the day’s most anticipated act. Greeting the crowd with his instantly recognisable and quintessentially ‘Declan Mckenna’ kitsch costumes and visuals, the singer was welcomed by the loving crowd as though he was an old friend. 

With the crowd chanting the singer’s name to the tune of the familiar thump of the White Stripes’ ‘Seven Nation Army,’ it didn’t take long for McKenna to unfurl into his offbeat and quietly confident persona. Reflective of his widespread popularity, the singer spared little time for menial crowd interaction, instead using the allocated time to blaze through various consecutive hits charting the course of his almost-10-year-long career. 

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I couldn’t help but admire the commitment of some of the crowd members, (most of whom donned Declan McKenna tour t-shirts) but my attention was piqued by two guys who had worn Brazil football t-shirts, arming themselves with Brazil flags in preparation for McKenna’s most commercially successful, and perhaps best-loved single. The love for Declan McKenna on behalf of the crowd was both palpable and electric, with the musician’s charismatic and passionate performance proving just why this was the case. I also never thought I’d be in a ‘mosh pit’ to some of Declan McKenna’s singles, but I guess there’s a first time for everything! Highlights from this illustrious set included: the politically charged anthem ‘British Bombs,’ the existential ‘The Key to Life on Earth,’ and obviously the indie staple ‘Brazil’ (throughout which I couldn’t see McKenna, instead having to see the backs of people atop shoulders.) 

Ironically, against the setting of a piss-wet-through field, the band whose most successful single refers to ‘T-Shirt Weather’ could not have been scheduled to perform at a less appropriate time. Circa Waves were unfortunately treated to a weaker, and significantly soaked crowd – with most of those in attendance choosing to see The Cribs who were conveniently performing underneath the shelter of the CLASH big top. It was at this point where the heavy rain began to push out a considerable amount of the festival’s guests before some of the headlining performances. Lucky for us, those who remained seemed in higher spirits than those who began to pile into their cars to head home. Not getting any drier, those gathered at the Cockpit to witness the last act of the day resigned themselves to make the most of the bad weather in true British fashion. Who needs to be dry, anyway?  

By the time that headliners The Kooks took to the Cockpit stage, the rain ponchos were out in full-force – or at least for those veterans who brought them as an insurance measure. For those unluckily not clad in weather-preventative clothes, the reality of the colds of the near future began to settle in. A dazzling jewel in the crown of the British music scene and arguable litmus test for an individual’s ‘Britishness’, The Kooks beamed through their impressive discography balancing their older material with newer singles. With sun-bleached and optimistic singles like ‘Junk of the Heart (Happy)‘, The Kooks brought a much-needed warming quality to an otherwise dismal setting. There was something so thoroughly moving about hearing the first song I remember loving as a small child, (the monolithic ‘She Moves in Her Own Way’) performed in such a way which was indistinguishable from the 18-year-old studio recording. Also, it was equally as moving to see a congregation of thoroughly sodden attendees abandoning all sense of inhibition and shamelessly unite for the last act, even if any movement of the feet meant kicking up wet mud with each step. The last song of the day fittingly came in the form of the band’s undeniably most popular single, Inside In/Inside Out’s (2006) scorned track ‘Naïve.’ As the crowd belted out the line ‘Hold on to your kite / Just don’t let me down,’ the four-piece were almost inaudible on account of the audience’s fervour and palpable love for the single. 

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And with that, the 2024 festival season begins with a huge crash, mammoth bang and a gargantuan wallop. This year’s instalment of Live At Leeds in the Park had it all – a dazzlingly impressive roster of acts, electric performances from firmly established fan favourites, cordial introductions to your next musical obsession, mosh pits and dad-dancing, and of course, a healthy dose of rain (because what’s a British festival without some unfortunately humbling British weather.) 

Live At Leeds in the City takes place on the 16th November 2024 in various venues across the city. Find out more information here: https://www.liveatleeds.com/ 

Album Review: All for Something by Tiny Habits

Written by Lucas Assagba. Edited by Millie Cain.

‘We say the same phrase at the same tempo, as we get out the back of a man’s Toyota.’
A dose of metafiction opens Tiny Habits’ debut album, All for Something.
Circling’ is a song the harmony trio sings together in the green room before
every show, described by vocalist Maya Rae as ‘the perfect song to start off the
record.’


This same metafiction is reflected in the album’s cover, a simple shot of the band
spinning in a circle; ‘everything’s circling around us, promising a lifetime of love.’
Novelty is the ever-present crux of any Tiny Habits song; that warm feeling you
get when you realise, you’re hearing something unlike anything ever made. The
band have been going strong since their formation at Berklee College of Music in
2022, and this novelty isn’t showing any sign of fading.


Maya describes track two as a ‘rock banger’; with cunning production courtesy of
Tony Berg and Will Maclellan (Boygenius, Taylor Swift), ‘People Always Change
sees the trio on an ever-cool indie-rock wave. With third single ‘I Don’t Have The
Heart’ bringing a similarly high energy; it’s almost satirically dance-able. As singer
Judah Mayowa muses, ‘Why does this feel like the upbeat? / Waiting to fall into a
groove again.’ Both songs are a refreshing turn away from their usual solemn,
folk-driven atmosphere.


All for Something isn’t starved of this atmosphere by any means, however. Tiny
Habits are at their best when they’re at their most candid. ‘Flicker’ was first
written by Judah while the band were on tour in 2023. After taking it to Maya, and
to Cinya Khan, the three transformed the song into something that feels at home
on a joint record, described by Judah as ‘one of our favs.’ A strong point of the
album for me, ‘Flicker’ contains some of its simplest, but most poignant words; ‘you like
keeping me around / ‘cause I’m easy to have.’


Songs like ‘Malleable’ are a reminder that, at their core, Tiny Habits are a group
of friends, sharing a connection and propping one another up, just as a harmony
serves a melody. Written by Cinya in the aftermath of a damaging relationship,
and ultimately driven by her, the song painfully asserts that ‘It’s just impractical /
to be a fraction of myself for you.’


Connection often serves as the driving force of the band and of the album,
whether that’s the connection between Judah, Maya, and Cinya, or between
them and their collaborators. Judah wrote ‘Planting Flowers’ with his best friend
and college roommate Stav McAllister (who featured the band on his own song, ‘Joker’), and ‘Broken’ was written by Maya and her cousin, Benjamin Millman (the
producer of their debut EP’s lead single, ‘Hemenway’).


Perhaps the most important connection is the one between artists and their
producers – and the sheer trust between Tiny Habits, Tony Berg and Will
Maclellan is palpable. Especially on ‘Small Enough’, a song with two distinct
versions. ‘This was the first song we worked on with Tony [Berg],’ Cinya said in
our interview, which you can read here. ‘We had our qualms with it, […] and it
stuck out in a really strange way. We thought it’d be nice to tweak it and make it
more seamless in terms of the record.’ Though I loved the single version, the
song on the album is streets ahead, and it feels so much more comfortable on
the record.


Penultimate track ‘Wishes’ was a highlight of mine; it was described by Maya as
‘one of the most special tracks we’ve ever created,’ and I’m inclined to agree.
Vulnerability and candidness run through every song on the album, but on
Wishes’ more than every other, and in that way, it feels emblematic of the entire
record.


Any discussion of Tiny Habits would be insufficient without talking about their
heavenly harmonies, and they really shine through on ‘Wishes’; they harmonise
with themselves and with each other, playing with dissonance in a way only they
can. The trio opens the door on their deepest wishes and desires, singing them
to the sky as one tosses coins into a well. It’s my favourite song on the album,
though it leaves us on a thematic low point; ‘I wish these wishes / weren’t all for
nothing / all the time.’


But, as we’ve learned, Tiny Habits are ever optimistic. Final track ‘Salt and Sand
is the turning of a new leaf in musical form; ‘We both got what you asked for /
That’s just the way it is / I hope you can forget this.’ It brings the album back
down to Earth as the three repeat, ‘I lose myself in time’ in the refrain.

All for Something is a pure joy to experience. Whether they’re singing to an
audience of hundreds in a packed venue, or to an audience of screens in their
college dorm, Tiny Habits serve to remind us that no expression of emotion is in
vain. From the simplest observation to the grandest proclamation, it’s all for
something.